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Good morning, colleagues, and welcome to Day 2 of the retreat.
This morning, you are going to be asked to view three graphic selections of pornography from our safe place. This is an advanced SAR-type activity.
Each assignment with discussion is 15 minutes. If you are finished before 10:55, you may look at the sites below or look at additional sites, such as youporn or xtube or others that you may know, perhaps in specific genres. At 11:00, we will come together to process the experience.
Remember one of the most important rules for any SAR-type experience:
Headlights off. Heartlights on.
Three questions to keep in mind are:
What impact does this have on the student watching?
What impact does it have on that student's current or future partners?
What are the educational messages that we can create for our students to potentiate the psycho-sexual developmental aspects of viewing this clip?
Remember our guidelines (and a few of my own):
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You have the right to pass on this entire activity or just parts of it. It is graphic, and I crafted everything about the exercise to evoke responses. When you are not passing...
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Speak in I statements and from a 1st person perspective. Your Great Aunt Jean isn't with us this weekend, but you can talk about how you feel about her experience.
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Take part.
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Assume good will.
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Move forward/move back (or oral thinkers can reflect more while reflective thinkers are invited to be more oral)
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What happens at ASET stays at ASET, though share the experiences without names or identifying information.
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Explain any acronyms or terms. Use operative definitions.
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Ouch/oops. If somebody says something offensive, say so, and if you said it, apologize and move on. Remember Rule Number 4!
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Keep in mind all those who do not have access to this space.
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Challenge yourself and others.
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Be here in this space in this moment.
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Include others.
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Keep the technology in check.
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Have fun or at least don't diminish the fun others are having!
Here are your assignments (and yes, the "titles" of the assignments will be discussed later):
Assignment Lesbians
Please watch the first two and the last two minutes of this film.
Assignment Northwestern Sex Class ("What's a fuck saw?")
Please watch the following clip from minute 6:00 to the end and discuss.
Assignment Man with a Vagina
Please watch the following clip in its entirety.
Assignment Voyeurism
Please click on the first box in the upper left corner and watch for two minutes.
Assignment Woman Has a Penis
Please watch the first two minutes of this film and any two minutes in the middle.
Assignment ATM
Please watch the first two and the last two minutes from this clip.
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